"Independent woman working for her throne"

Never, ever, ever, will I be someone's "girl". I'll never be your "mistress", I'll never be your "chick" or your "babe". Sure, I'll be a girlfriend, a wife, a best friend, etc............... just don't speak of me as if I'm an object.

Women tolerate toooo much shit from the male race these days. It's one thing to overlook the little things that might cause bumps in your metaphorical relationship road, but it's completely another to be referred to as an object of affection.

Let's take a look at this:
an object is something you posess. If you possess it, obviously you have supremacy over it.
Think about this: aren't successful relationships supposed to be about equality?

I can tell you right now I'm no object.
You can't throw me around, tell me what to do, control my actions or predict my words.
I'm not like those barbie dolls your sisters played with when you were children.
I'm not perfect, I'm unpredictable, I make mistakes and definitely have my flaws.
But think again.
Can your barbie doll's face light up every time you enter a room? can you have intellectual conversation with the doll for hours and have it seem like ten minutes? Can you find yourself entertained by said doll for hours on end, just by doing nothing?

Please guys, wake up and acknowledge the fact that your woman is so much more than a piece of plastic or a shiny windbreaker - sure, in the way you address her, but also the way you treat her.
Bear with her through her flaws and don't insult her by calling her your
'girl' - cus she's not.
She's the most wonderful woman you've ever met and you feel so blessed she's your wife.
Hard to say that about a barbie doll.